@viviantejada

1. Create a life you love. Don't seek out a relationship to fill a void. Fill all of your voids on your own. 
2. Let him lead without assistance. If you have to nudge him or follow up with him about the status of your relationship, he's not the one. 
3. No fixer uppers. If he's confused, lost, emotionally unavailable, or dealing with previous trauma - throw the whole man away
4. Be comfortable with space. If he starts pulling back, let him. You're supposed to become more relaxed. Rest in your feminine energy

@lydias6335

“You are the magic, you are the castle, you are everything!” GIRL YES WE ARE 🎉❤ and ladies Don’t everrrr forget it or let anyone convince you otherwise!!!

@KLuxe_1

You understand the assignment! Michelin meal, A half used gift card, unpaid life coach...said in ways that are clear on where we stand💖

@TehyaSB

Your future husband won't need assembling like an IKEA flat pack set 😂😂😂 I always love your vids

@mariqua5507

No one has ever chased me like that, and maybe they never will. And I'm realizing that's ok.

@missrd395

"Throw the whole man away" I laughed so hard. Thanks for this reallity check l. Def taking accountability! ❤

@kirsten_e

Currently dealing with someone who doesn’t prioritize me and I’m going to listen to this every day 💕

@Heather-uw1wj

Can I just say ty for making content for women who are already in relationships with a healthy provider man! So much content is about finding one but not enough about afterwards. Love all your videos!

@xyz187-y28

never ever stop making videos
these are really helpfull ❤❤❤ 
lot's of love may you grow further !!! 🙏🏻

@wassabilove1111

when I heard the "Youre being an unpaid life coach" @ 3:28 I had to rewind your video and hear it all again 😂🤣😂love your voice btw, so soothing, really keeps taking me back to my favorite movie of all time, The Parent Trap <3

@Kim-hz3gn

This is exactly what I needed to hear, thank you 🤗 I will listen to it every morning, your wisdom will make me feel like magic every day 🧚

@sandracrazed5399

the big sister i’ve never had 💛✨

@AnsiArazaharah

Lols of love to your wisdom ,would u please talk about the pressure of aging without having a man.

@Virvepaulina

You're amazing 😁

@Kittysloveforyou

Girl you are speaking volumes 💃💃💃

@Louisa1970_

I can imagine you don't have problem making men love you, your beautiful and we all have our own flaws that some men just won't get involved with

@sijujo

Exaaaactly what I needed to hear ❤️

@franci-uz

Hi Alia, could you pls do a video on finding female friends and staying friends with them?

@shivakamiravichandran6723

You are doing wonderful work ❤

@minusingh6215

You’re truly an angel ❤