@Us5ma5n
"I was yelled at, I was hit. It's fucked up. But I'm rich." PERFECT delivery lmao, she lost it.
@spiritinthematerialworld
“KIDS CANNOT LEARN TO TOLERATE FEELINGS WE DON’T TOLERATE IN THEM.” Bam!! What a great choice for an interview!! I’m glad Hasan is out here doing it on his own with quality work! 🎉
@roniersilva8019
So Hasan just had a 30min free consultation LMAO
@shanepez
My 5yo would disregulate and throw huge fits for seemingly innocuous things. We initially reacted with the same energy yelled back and sent her to her room. This didn't help. Once, I tried going to her room with her and just sat quietly while she screamed, hit me, threw her toys. But eventually, she melted into my arms and just starting bawling. I embraced her, told her I loved her, and she calmed down. What Dr. Becky talks about around min 22 hit a chord and reminded me of that. When she throws fits, this is exclusively what I do now, and it works so much better. She also has way fewer fits.
@roseban5938
As a non parent (who also doesn’t want kids) this was surprisingly insightful and thought provoking. I reflected on my own childhood at some points and even my relationships with the people around me.
@AnnaAnota
😂 the statement “I was hit, but I’m rich” really spoke to me and made me realize how deep my admiration for Hasan is. ❤
@iamnotreal_kayla
I don't even have kids but this explained a lot of the bad habits I struggle with as an adult so thanks for that free therapy session lol
@jtarde
22:25 This, right here, is my family. I have 2 kids on the spectrum. Both have been labeled ODDisorder. It wasn’t until we started a relationship-based therapy model that connections happened that truly helped them. Thank you for saying this! We need less ABA for autism and more relationship model!
@michelleamatulle6378
Such a shame Hasan didn’t get to host the daily show. He so deserved it. Still don’t understand it.
@harmoniaSINGS05
So many good wisdoms and quotes!! "Their words are their fears, not their wishes." Oof! 🎤
@sharonhuang1343
Love how you said it "You don't have to like it that I'm here, you don't even have to look at me, I'm staying, I'm your parent, I love you , you don't scare me and we're going to get through this." Made me want to tear knowing how much love there is for your child(ren). He's a lucky kid!
@naomiomiomiravioli
loved this episode of hasan's therapy session! as an educator and caretaker, she is so spot on. trying to help toddlers potty train is brutal but only because learning is brutal and so is having a body and all of it is new and all the adults make everything seem so important and easy!!
@cclayton1316
"Without physically assaulting me" 😂
@jessaabraham
Shame and fear is the worst thing you can instill in children. Showing them responsible accountability and consequences is different. Raising kids using fear and shame is easy hence my parents your parents etc had it easy.
@Gmentality69
We were having The hardest time with our 3-year-old, and their behaviors. Then we found Dr. Becky and her information about "deep feeling kids" and it completely reframed how parent our child and has changed our relationship in such a positive way. Thank you Dr Becky.
@DeltaV-Garage
This was very insightful. Netflix was a bunch of dumbasses for cancelling your show.
@elizabethsmith6408
Woah, I was so excited to watch his interview and it did not disappoint! Hasan is probably my favorite interviewer and Dr. Becky's approach is genius. Grateful for this.
@autodogdact3313
"You aren't taking me seriously and I'm scared." "Please show me U'm nit as toxuc and bad as I think I am." This, this really hit me. I wasn't diagnosed as autistic until I was 63. I was always so ashamed when I became terrified and overwhelmed and had a meltdown. I would pray to have a temper like my father who never erupted like that. That statement right there explains why my brother can still trigger me to this day. I may now have a meltdown once every 3 years or so, but he can trigger it even when he thinks he is just telling old family stories.
@JinxedJoker
Better Help ad coming in right after "It's fucked up, but I'm rich." Was amazing... 😂
@HasanMinhaj